I help seniors and families with aging loved ones navigate decisions about care and housing options when staying at home is no longer the safest or best fit. Maybe your mom had a recent medical event that impacted her long-term mobility. Maybe your dad is experiencing cognitive changes and is not safe to live alone anymore. Maybe your aunt longs for more connection and is eager to find an independent living community so she can build her community and not feel so isolated. 

It can quickly feel overwhelming to navigate all the options - let alone knowing where to start. I help you figure out what level of care is needed, share with you options that fit your situation, and help you compare them so you don’t waste time touring places that aren’t the right fit. I advocate for your loved one and help you navigate concerns and questions you might have for the care homes and communities; we become a team. I stay with you through the whole process so you’re not left to navigate it alone.

I take the time to learn about your loved one, getting to know and understand their care needs, cognitive concerns, daily routines, personality, values and budget. Then, I introduce you to appropriate care homes or senior living communities that align with your unique needs. I help families explore a variety of options including assisted living communities, adult foster homes, memory care and rehab care facilities. Together, we find what makes the most sense for your loved one’s health, memory, mobility, values and budget. We’ll tour these care homes and communities together. I stay involved throughout the process ensuring a smooth, supported transition.

Deciding on a care home or senior living community can feel overwhelming, and it’s normal to worry about making the “right” choice. My role is to guide you step by step- helping you understand your loved one’s needs, compare options, and ask the right questions. I focus on matching care settings to my clients medical, cognitive, behavioral, and social needs, as well as their  lifestyle, values, and budget. While no decision is ever perfect, families tell me that having a trusted advisor by their side helps them feel informed, confident, and reassured that the placement is the right fit for their loved one.

My priority is always finding the right fit for each person. If I don’t think a place is a safe or good match, I won’t recommend it. No exceptions. I work with care homes and communities that meet my safety, enrichment and quality standards. I use the licensed long term care website through DHS to research facilities.  My experience in the industry and working closely with care homes and caregivers, guides my assessment of which placements would best fit my clients.

There is no cost to families and clients for my service. I am a free community resource; I am contracted with a wide variety of care homes and communities, allowing me to choose the best fit for my clients. These care homes and communities compensate me directly for my support in the placement process.

I start with an in-person conversation and observation. I look at things like medication management, mobility and leisure engagement, daily routines as well as memory, behavioral or emotional challenges. With my background in Occupational Therapy and senior case management, I bring my clinical lens to my work as an advisor.  I focus on efficiency and safety without rushing the process. It is important that families can make thoughtful decisions in a reasonable timeframe while still feeling confident and supported.

I respond quickly and am easy to reach by phone/text 207.841.5352 or email, rebecca@nestrightsenior.com. Usually, we can schedule an initial meeting in just a few days. If there’s an urgent situation- like a hospital discharge or safety concern, I will prioritize those cases.

It’s common for seniors to hesitate about leaving a home they love.  Together, we start building a care team. This often involves the family, care/medical staff and community partners. Building these relationships early on helps to foster trusting relationships that develop over time. This way, when the time comes to consider a move, the senior and/or family feels supported, understood, and more confident in the decision. My goal is to guide families thoughtfully and compassionately toward the best outcome.

Yes! Decisions about senior care often involve multiple voices and perspectives. People may see things differently. By facilitating collaborative and respectful conversation, I help families reach decisions that feel informed, balanced, and aligned with what’s best for their loved one.

Many care homes and senior living communities have waitlists because demand can be high, especially for specific levels of care or memory care units. Being on a waitlist simply means your loved one has a spot reserved in the order that applications are received and based on the facility’s criteria.

Families sometimes worry that if they work with a senior advisor, the facility might prioritize or deprioritize residents based on referral arrangements. I want to reassure you this is not the case. Communities follow their own policies for waitlists, and your loved one’s position is determined by the facility, not by whether a senior advisor is involved. While waitlists can feel stressful, I help families navigate the process, communicate clearly with the community, and explore alternative options if timing or availability is a concern.

At this time, I only provide guidance and placement support within Oregon and Washington. My licenses, knowledge of local care homes, and pulse on quality standards is strongest in these states, and I want every recommendation I give to be ethical, safe, and well-informed.

If you’re looking for options in another state, I can help connect you with a trusted senior advisor in your area who can guide you locally. I can also provide tips on what to look for in a care home, questions to ask, and how to evaluate options safely. This way, even if you’re outside my region, you’ll have professional guidance and support.

There is no contract or obligation. My goal is to provide guidance, information, and support so families can make the best decisions for their loved one. You can ask questions, explore options, and take your time. You are in control of every decision. I’m here to help and guide you.

If you’re working with a senior advisor, it’s important to choose one person to work with. This ensures clear communication and helps avoid confusion or conflicting guidance. It’s okay to change your mind or switch advisors if needed- but out of respect for everyone involved, it’s best to let all parties know so transitions are smooth and professional.

I help ensure the move is smooth, address immediate concerns that come up and provide resources if new questions arise. The day-to-day care and management will become the responsibility of the family and care team at the community they move into. My support is limited to advising and helping problem-solve, rather than ongoing hands-on care.